i don't mean to sound like a nag (i'm sure i do, sorry), but i would never let my snakes near another animal, i'd be to worried about accidents. plus snakes really aren't social, aside from hibernation and breeding anyway.
as for sexing that can be done at anytime in a snakes life, i think cirtian tree pythons/boas are the exception because of tail kinking tho.
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