You are not going to like this answer, however, I think that under the circumstances you need to consider medication like Buspar or Prozac to help settle the kitty down. You'd already done so much. Very often these drugs will do wonders, and after the initial problem is "unlearned" the drugs can be gradually withdrawn.
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Smile, it will make them wonder what you are up to!

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