I agree that getting a kitten would probably be best. I've not been in a similar situation but know folks who have and it seems a kitten goes over better as long as they are introduced to one another gradually.
We have 2 Tonks - Rugby and Teyla. Rugby is the lover and Teyla is the more typically aloof kitty. But not always. When she wants attention, she absolutely demands it be RIGHT NOW! Rugby will take love and affection 24/7 and twice on Sunday. Teyla is more selective about it. It's usually when it's the most inconvenient time for us.
Rugby is the first male cat my partner and I have ever had. Initially we had no interest in getting a boy since we had both only ever had females. We wanted 2 cats and all our breeder had available at the time were these 2 wonderful furballs. We honestly could not be more happy with our boy! His affection is overwhelming - literally!
I think we would agree that our girl is the Alpha of the house but more of a silent Alpha. When she yells and screams (for whatever reason) Rugby comes a'running. When Rugby yells Teyla doesn't even lift her head. It's just not worth the effort to her! Teyla will always defer to Rugby if he's getting attention and she wants it. She will wait until he is done. But with anything else, she comes first. Food, toys, helping to make the beds or fold laundry. She is always first to where ever you want to go.
Alright - I'll stop rambling now. Just can't help it. I am truly head over heels in love with this breed. Keep us posted on your decision and definitely post pics!



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K&C (proud servants of Teyla & Rugby)
Peace, Purrs & Headbutts!

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