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johnavilla
at Fri Mar 31 14:44:14 2006 [ Email Message ] [ Show All Posts by johnavilla ]
Wow, a lot of you have a lot to say without knowing all of the facets. No one said anything about getting married. To the person who suggested I was in this solely for the buisness; LEARN HOW TO READ. As for moveing, that would be awsome but unfortunately it is expensive and we have a really nice apartment at a really low price with heat and hot water included, so I am stuck until the end of summer at the earliest. A lot of you also said very helpful things and I thank you. I also thank those of you who jenny jonsed this thread becouse although I found some comments anoying I know that you meant well and were being supportive so thanks (no, I am not being sarcastic). At any rate, I talked to the landlord today and she said that it was ok for me to have a couple but that she had a bad experience with a snake guy and she did'nt want me breeding them. Apearantly she had a tenant who had 30 snakes and when he moved he left a bunch of dirty cages and a freezer full of rats and the plumber found a dead boa in the wall, what an a$$ =$&@. Needles to say I will be leaving this apartment as soon as possible. One other note though. To those of you who think that I should leave this girl I want you to take this into consideration. How would you feel if your whole life, you had some lunatic parent drilling insane things into your head on all subjects, making you constantly second guess your self and when you went to get your first apartment they drilled it into your head that if your boy friend had snakes no one would rent to you and you would be stuck living with them? You would probably get very anxiouse and start to asociate that anxiety with the snakes, right? Now I am not saying that it is right of her to feel this way but it is understandable right? Eventually she will learn that these animals are not a threat to her. Knowing that the landlord is ok with the few I have will probably relieve some of that anxiety and when we get another apartment or house, knowing that my having snakes is not a threat to her, she will be supportive. I am not angry with those of you who suggested this and like I said yesterday, I have probably posted simmilar things so what I am saying is that we al need to try to understand others a little better and be more thoughtful in our advice.
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- hopes and dreams crushed... long - johnavilla, Thu Mar 30 09:55:57 2006
- RE: hopes and dreams crushed... long - AJCrader, Thu Mar 30 10:07:33 2006
- Snakes are forever! girlfriends arent - Garycrain, Thu Mar 30 10:37:46 2006
- RE: hopes and dreams crushed... long - medusah, Thu Mar 30 10:41:26 2006
- RE: hopes and dreams crushed... long - EmberBall, Thu Mar 30 11:08:27 2006
- Thanks for all the support...more... - johnavilla, Thu Mar 30 13:12:05 2006
- i got an idea...... - gooofycivic, Thu Mar 30 16:14:34 2006
- I SAY DUMP HER - kylescott, Thu Mar 30 19:03:43 2006
- my 2 cents... - crazydart, Thu Mar 30 20:31:31 2006
- RE: hopes and dreams crushed... long - havic, Fri Mar 31 00:20:14 2006
- Why not move? - caparu, Fri Mar 31 06:19:52 2006
- RE: hopes and dreams crushed... long - Nita, Fri Mar 31 10:38:15 2006
 Updates... - johnavilla, Fri Mar 31 14:44:14 2006
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