Very good points mrslate... We originally got our first Uro because my daughter (then 12) wanted a lizard, and I didn't want any insects in the house. I told her that if she could find a vegetarian reptile, we'd talk. Well, after many trips to the library, tons of internet research time, etc., she found Uros. She paid for Gizmo and his entire setup with her saved up Christmas/babysitting money. I allowed her to get him under the condition that "I" would be the primary caregiver and decision-maker, and it would be her job to help me out and learn proper care and husbandry. I also told her that we would NOT bring him home until we had everything completely set up and running properly.

It has been a wonderful learning experience for the whole family, and we ALL participate in care, though I'm still the adult ultimately responsible. We've since gotten two juvie Saharans (mostly for me, because after having Gizmo I fell in love with Uros!)

I think the major problem with most kids wanting pets, regardless of reptile or dog or cat or hamster... is that there needs to be a supervising parent who is willing to teach their kids proper animal care and respect, and be ultimately responsible for the pet. My kids have known how to respect ANY animal since the time they could crawl. My daughter, now almost 14, knows more about proper Uro care than many adults, because we've taken the time to learn together.

I've known too many families where kids are downright abusive towards pets, and the parents don't care and don't do a thing about it. Ok.... just my .02 cents.

Andi

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