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draybar
at Thu Nov 26 10:44:51 2009 [ Email Message ] [ Show All Posts by draybar ]
>>"I know the concerns with hybrids. I understand the reasons people are strongly against them. I respect those opinions..but your words were.....irresponsible and ignorant and this was in referrence to the hybrid forum and the people there. ..meaning people who breed hybrids. You did not differentiate in your statement. You can go back and differentiate now but..... >>Anyway, I have had this discussion many times without things coming to a personal level....but what can I say? irresponsible and ignorant without clarification mean exactly that, irresponsible and ignorant. Which, of course, is pretty much personal. So, I responded..." >>
>>With "irresponsible" and "ignorant" I was responding to someone who claimed that the "thought process" on the Hybrid forum is more "tolerant" and "diverse" than here on the Ratsnake forum. >> >>So how did this become a personal attack on you?
you just said it your self. did you read your own response you just said what I said you called the people on the hybrid forum irresponsible and ingnorant. you said it, I pointed it out and you repeated it. Now if you can follow this, with what seems to be a really slow thought process...when you call people at the hybrid forum irresponsible and ignorant it is an insult to people who take part in the hybrid forum and who breed hybrids.. is it really that hard to fathom? a personal attack (calling people irresponsible and ignorant) for some strange reason will be taken personally. just like your highly intellegent response to the original poster. let's see...oh yeah...you called her an idiot... hmmm..I guess in YOUR mind that wasn't an insult either
here let me help a little...one plus one equals two.
look at Doug's responses...strong, clear, sometimes a little condescending but not straight out personal. they can be respected and argued. when you have to resort to name calling you loose any and all credibility you may have ever had.
----- Corn snakes and rat snakes..No one can have just one. "Resistance is futile" Jimmy Johnson (Draybar) Draybars Snakes
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