Still no luck, and it's been a month. The Comfort Zone plug-in seems to help. My three year old cat plays again, but still has moments of real anger toward me. The two cannot be in the same room without aggression on her part (he is oblivious). YET, they will play under the door, catching each other's paws, and without any hissing or physical signs of aggression. In fact, the three year old looks playful, comfortable and relaxed while doing this; the moment I open the door, hissing and chasing ensue. Very frustrating to experience this, and frankly tiring too. I'm doing this alone. How long should I wait before I realize it's either happening or not? I'm getting attached to this kitten, as is he, and would hate to have to give him up, but the intent was to give Maja a companion... she doesn't seem to want one. I am moving to a house (from a 2 bedroom apt.) soon, so might that help them get along? (more space, neutral ground, nobody's territory yet?)

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