I dunno, I've heard the "let them sort it out" method is a bad way to go, you could end up with cats that will NEVER get along if you don't do it right. They feel their space is being invaded and nobody seems to care so it can make them bitter and defensive. First off are they both altered? I think you're doing the right thing with trying to let Josie have her space and you may opt to keep this up for a little while longer but even still it may be too late because Dexter doesn't seem to like being isolated and he's vocal about it. My friend had this problem with her dog but I don't think the same applies. After a week though I should think that they would've been better together but for some it takes more time. Try positive reinforcement, you could use her favorite treats or toy and always reward good behavior. When she's in front of the door or carrier, talk to her and let her know what's going on with the new kitten. Pat her and give her a few treats for good behavior and make sure she knows nothing is going to change. Give it time and I wish the best of luck to you and your growing feline family

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