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>>Some of ya'll seem to demand that HE respect me. And you seem to think that means giving in to whatever I want without considering how he feels about it. That is nonsense.

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>>"He'll come around..." Yes...eventually he will. I truly hope that someday he'll be a partner in these endevours, rather than a reluctantly "supportive" spouse. But I won't ever get there by badgering him to see things my way.





I think you are doing a great job with your relationship. Not that you need my approval I am sure. But I thought it was a step for him and that is tough for many who are NOT snake people.

My dh has a thing about arachnids. So, no Tarantula or scorpions in our house. He doesn't need reasons. He doesn't want them. I respect his dislike and love him for being totally with me for so many other things. Wish I had some numbers for your husband. I suspect it is more a comfort with size thing. Has he seen or possibly held a fully adult BP? Maybe that would help.
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