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We just had a bad day and need some cheering up

havic Feb 06, 2006 12:18 AM

The day started out all right we had some family over that we hadnt seen for a few months and had already discussed with them about sending them home with a kitten that we rescued and also one of our large boas. We didnt think it would effect us the way it has as soon as they left we all broke down in tears because we missed our kitten and our snake we know as adults that it was for the best. They had just lost their dog and had said that they were looking to get a cat and brian offered them our kitten because we dont need seven snakes, six cats, five mice, five frogs, four rats, and six humans living in a small 1300 sqft house it was just getting to crowded. But when the time came for them to leave and our girls started to cry about the kitten leaving it broke our hearts and now we are upset with the dission and wondering if we choose the right one of letting the cat and the snake go. And to make matters worse the seahawks lost the superbowl lol. WE will be removing cami the cat and wiggles the boa from our signture after this post.

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2.1.0 ball python (aragorn, frodo, arwen)
2.0.0 columbian boa (wiggles and squiggles)
1.0.0 rat snake (alabastered)
0.1.0 corn snake (baby)
3.3.0 cats (rockie, bs, brownie, lerrado, kole, camie)
1.3.0 kids (dilyen, dakota, chyanne, sierra)
Brian n Chrissy
"snakes are kind of like potato chips, you cant have just one"

Replies (7)

coldthumb Feb 06, 2006 01:54 AM

...look at it like the Steelers won!

I do know how you feel though...had to give up a perfectly good dog once...it sucked.

Look at it this way,you still have five other cats... O_o
(,says the guy with a room filled with pythons...haha)

Let's just hope you don't hear that the boa ate the kitty..:P
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Charles Glaspie

Tanstaafl:
"There ain't no such thing as a free lunch".
An acronym created by my favorite author Robert A. Heinlein.

bps516 Feb 06, 2006 07:38 AM

I can't imagine how difficult the decision to do this was for you and your husband. You never want to see your children cry over anything and it is even harder to know that it was something that you did that is causing them to feel that way. Keep in mind though that you have just given your children an example that they will keep with them that the most important thing with having pets is their overall wellbeing. Don't get me wrong, I am sure that you take great care of your pets (and children), but as you said it is difficult to have so many in that size of a space. It is a painful lesson but in time the pain will die down and in the long run your kids (and yourselves) will think more about how lucky the kitten and snake both are being in a home where they will be loved (like they were at your house) and also have more individual attention than you could have given them. Thank you for not only setting such a good example for your children but also sharing this with us so it can be an example for others too!
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Bryan, Atlanta GA

1-0-0 Rescued Ball Python - Apep
0-1-0 Rescued Mountain Horned Dragon - Ki
0-0-1 Rescued Aggressive Bearded Dragon - Zeus
0-0-1 Rescued Non-Alpha Green Iguana - Bud
1-1-0 Rescued Rats... no wait... ROTTEN Little Cats - Ra, Bastet
0-0-1 Rescued Dieting Panda Hamster - Mr. Fluffy
0-1-0 Rescued Little Angelic Kitten - Isis
1-0-0 Horse... whoops... BIG Golden Retriever - Jake
0-1-0 Wife
2-0-0 Kids

wftright Feb 06, 2006 09:51 PM

I think you made a nice decision. If they lost a dog recently, they're probably hurting a bit. A kitten that you guys have been caring for is likely to be a very nice animal. Just seeing your posts tells me that you know how to work with animals and would socialize a kitten very well. By giving this kitten to them, you're helping them overcome their loss. I'm sure that it pains the girls, but as Bryan mentioned, you're setting a good example of helping others.

This may be a horrible thing for me to say, but if they aren't experienced snake owners, there's probably a 50/50 chance that the boa constrictor will be back anyway. If they are happy with him, then again you've spread good cheer. There will always be need for someone to rescue boa constrictors. They're beautiful at a young age, but many people aren't going to be able to handle them as they approach adult sizes. Your investment of time is hard to let go, but you've done a generous thing.

A buddy of mine went through something similar around Christmas. He parked at a Burger King and heard a kitten in a dumpster. He talked to the folks who worked there, and they mentioned rescuing 7 kittens from the dumpster earlier in the day. This one had fallen between things to the bottom and hadn't been noticed at first. A kid who worked there came out and dumpster dived until he found the kitten. (My buddy is 42 and has had over 40 operations of various kinds. He can't dumpster dive anymore.) The kitten was soaked to the skin and looked horrible.

My buddy took the thing to a vet who pronounced it miserable but healthy. My buddy took it home and listened to it howl for about a day. Afterwards, the kitten was fine. It was friendly and playful. He'd come home and sit on the couch. Within a few minutes, he'd hear the thing bouncing down the stairs. He'd cross his legs to get a foot in the air. The thing would jump on the underside of his foot and wrap its front legs around the top of his shoe. Then it would push up with its hind legs and ride his foot like a yo-yo. After other kitten stuff, it would fall asleep on the couch with its head on his thigh.

He was on the edge of keeping it. He thought it was a great cat, but his health and job situation has been tenuous. When a nurse at his dialysis center said she certainly wanted it, he gave it to her. Fortunately, he didn't have kids to feel that separation, but letting go of a great little animal was tough. The good news is that he knows it was going somewhere good.

I admire the way you folks can work with animals. I think it's great that you can share your home with those that haven't done so well in encounters with people. I wouldn't have that patience.

Best hopes,

Bill
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It's not how many snakes you have. It's how happy and healthy you can keep them.

havic Feb 06, 2006 11:39 PM

Its been 24 hours now and we are feeling a bit better. I still look to the top of the cat tree expecting to see Camie sitting there. But I heard from her new owners and they say she is doing very well and getting along great with everyone. BTW the new owners are Brian's older brother and sister in-law. His brother has had over 5 years of experiance keeping snakes so we knew that the boa was going to a good handler and he also already has a female boa hence the reason we offered one of our adult males. Hoping for boa babys some day. We appriciate all your condulances. It is hard to let go of your resuces sometimes which both animals were. We are just big hearted softies who love all animals.
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2.1.0 ball python (aragorn, frodo, arwen)
1.0.0 columbian boa (squiggles)
1.0.0 rat snake (alabastered)
0.1.0 corn snake (baby)
3.2.0 cats (rockie, bs, brownie, lerrado, kole)
1.3.0 kids (dilyen, dakota, chyanne, sierra)
Brian n Chrissy
"snakes are kind of like potato chips, you cant have just one"

bps516 Feb 07, 2006 08:46 AM

I am glad it is doing well and being a member of the family, you kids will get to still see it again. That can also add to your kids' experience. They will be able to see not only example you set but also the reward of making such a decision! Best of luck to you all.

I occasionally wish we had actually adopted out our rescued iguana like we were planning at the beginning. He suckered me into thinking he was sweet and then once he got the big cage built for him, the jungle gym, the tv, and 1/4th of my bedroom he showed his 'not so cute' side. Though those feelings are deminished at other times (like last night when he finished his bath and swim then jumped out of the tub, onto the carpet, and proceeded to attempt to continue swimming away from me... on the carpet... needless to say, he didn't get far).
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Bryan, Atlanta GA

1-0-0 Rescued Ball Python - Apep
0-1-0 Rescued Mountain Horned Dragon - Ki
0-0-1 Rescued Aggressive Bearded Dragon - Zeus
0-0-1 Rescued Non-Alpha Green Iguana - Bud
1-1-0 Rescued Rats... no wait... ROTTEN Little Cats - Ra, Bastet
0-0-1 Rescued Dieting Panda Hamster - Mr. Fluffy
0-1-0 Rescued Little Angelic Kitten - Isis
1-0-0 Horse... whoops... BIG Golden Retriever - Jake
0-1-0 Wife
2-0-0 Kids

havic Feb 07, 2006 12:52 PM

Thanks for sharing the story about your iguana that was funny.
so i will share one of our bp's.

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2.1.0 ball python (aragorn, frodo, arwen)
1.0.0 columbian boa (squiggles)
1.0.0 rat snake (alabastered)
0.1.0 corn snake (baby)
3.2.0 cats (rockie, bs, brownie, lerrado, kole)
1.3.0 kids (dilyen, dakota, chyanne, sierra)
Brian n Chrissy
"snakes are kind of like potato chips, you cant have just one"

Monkeybut Feb 07, 2006 12:13 AM

Hay dad I finaly got It

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