roo frequents this forum so you can get first hand info from a very knowledgeable source/breeder. Chameleonnews also has an older article on Brookesia which is somewhat helpful, too, did you see that one? I had a trio of leaf chams a few years back from the Kammers (great breeders) and they all died within 2 weeks of one another at about 9 months old (had them for about 4-5 months). Long story, but one which was never resolved 
As for not a lot of info, you are right, but what is there is reputable on chamnews and adcham (look under species profile).
Crickets, like any insect, is not a completely nutritional food source, that is why gutloading them is so important. Some keep them on healthy gutload all the time (me, b/c I find it easier) and others who will gutload them (dry and wet) for 24 hours before feeding off - I find that to be too much to keep track of! ;-/
I would not bother with getting the waxworms to adult stage, they wiil be more attractive (wiggly and cream colored) than the moth.
I would go real easy with those mealies, high is chitin (exoskeleton - being a bio major you probably know what chitin is
) and more difficult to digest. And remember the rule of thumb for feeder size - no longer than the cham's head is wide (b/t eyes). wax and silkworms are an exception (within reason) b/c they are soft bodied.
I used to stick a piece of fruit on a wood skewer and place it in the soil so that the fruit was about eye level with the chams favorite spots The ff would clustr to it and then the chams just pick them off! Works great! Did it with my gecko and anoles, too.
so how big is this liitle fella(?) girl(?) If you post with specific questions you might want to put leaf cham (or simialr) in the topic so roo (and others) will be sure to answer. Got a cam for your cham? can't wait to see pics! I have been toying with getting some again... 
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