When did she eat last? What kind of setup do you have for her? Are her cage temperatures correct? Does she have plenty of hiding places? Where is she in the house? How much traffic is there through the room where she is kept?
I'm not very experienced, so I can't say that one or the other action is correct. I handled my ball python just a little bit for a couple of days after I brought her home. I fed her about a week after I brought her home, and she ate without a problem. In the four months that I've had her, she's never given me big problems by refusing to eat.
I'll admit to being very lucky with the ball python that I bought. I had no way of knowing when I bought her that she would be such a great little snake and would tolerate things well. As it turns out, she's very patient and doesn't allow too many things to stress her too much. On the other hand, there are things about my situation that are very advantageous to my snake.
I'm a middle-aged bachelor living alone. I'm in the room where I keep my snakes for a few hours a night while I fiddle with my computer, but otherwise, the room is empty and quiet. From midnight until seven in the morning, no one is in here making noise. I come in briefly around seven to check on things, get ready for work, and am gone until six in the evening. Not having people and noise in the room is generally good for a snake.
I'm also a bit compulsive about providing her with hiding places. When I first bought her, her cage was a bit bare, but I've been adding hiding places ever since. She has a choice of hides and uses two or three on a regular basis. I suspect that if she can spend twenty-three and a half hours a day in a very effective hide, she will better tolerate being held for half an hour. More experienced people may say that this factor isn't important, and I can't argue with them.
I can't say either way what you should do. I wouldn't spend a great deal of time holding her at this point, but resisting that temptation is sometimes easier for me because I'm so busy.
Congratulations on getting a really neat pet. I wish you all the best with her.
Bill
-----
It's not how many snakes you have. It's how happy and healthy you can keep them.