you dont HAVE to cook it, it is just easier to work with once it is hardened and crumbly. It will still be sticky - the trick is to not use TOO much honey.
The black spot is usually the beginning of death. it is usually due to damage (they got poked or cut) They turn black and die and stink! Whenever you see a black one remove it immediately.
what sort of container do you have them in? I use a plain plastic container, fill about 1/2 way with medium (food/substrate) and do not even cover. They won't climb out.
of the sites I gave you I think this one is the easiest to follow
home.earthlink.net/~kenuy/waxmoths.htm
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