>>As it happens, we are moving to Switzerland where my Mum is extremely ill so that we can take care of her. I know that it isn't too far from Belgium but feel that the journey alone would harm Bud. It is a stressful time all round and I am having to make more than 1 sacrifice to be with my Mum.
>>I know that giving up Bud is hard for you to understand but I don't think that I will have the time and energy to dedicate to Bud because of the situation. I'm sorry if you feel that I am being cruel but I am thinking more of Bud's welfare than I am of myself.
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No, I understand a sick parent can take a lot of time. In the States 6 to 12 million pets are put to sleep a DAY because they just aren't enough homes. I work in rescue (Mostly dogs and cats). The times I've heard 'because we're moving' is enough to make me scream. I wish you the best. Yours is not just some flip decision. Is it at all possible that you can have someone care for Bud until the situation improves? Is it possible Mom might enjoy Bud? Pets are very good for the soul, if not I wish the 3 of you the best of luck. And did you post on Kingsnake Europe? (Top of the page).

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Lin & Marley