My babies Boo and Popeye were quite highstrung, and easily frightened. They would freak if I even walked by their cage at first, and then gradually they got used to things. I actually found it a good thing for them to associate me or my fiance with food. I made them braver,and they slowly learned not to be so afraid of our hands. We made sure they had eaten before putting our hand totally in the cage, if they were hungry they tended to stalk our fingers. Just keep working at it, just remember to take it slow. Boo and Popeye recognize us, and will come out of hiding now. It probaly has more to do with the crickets than us, but Boo trusts us enough now to climb up on our hands. This is just my experience, I am by no means experienced. This is my first time raising babies, so I am learning as I go. Hope this helps you. Feel free to ask me any other questions you have, I may not be able to answer them all but I will try. Good Luck.
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Mommy of 6 Leopards
Milo(my male) Mongo, Raptor,and Spaz
My babies Popeye and Boo(named after Monster's Inc. Character)