I use aspen exclusively, for a variety of good reasons mostly having to do with the maintenance needs of a large collection, but on the subject of calci-sand, the following is a post I made to the horned lizard forum recently (it applies equally well to graybands):
"There's Calci-sand, and then there's Calci-sand. Most brands of calcium - based sands carried by pet stores are similar in both grain structure and material. They are mostly composed of jagged, sharp grains of the mineral CALCITE. This is a complex subject, but you can think of calcite as the "crystalline" form of Calcium-very much like diamond is the crystalline form of Carbon. And, like diamond, calcite is very hard and resists being broken down-even in your reptile's stomach! Not a good substrate choice for our reptiles!
There is an alternative. One company (that I know of), Carib-Sea, makes a sand composed entirely of smooth, rounded grains of "aragonite" (coral sand). This product dissolves VERY readily-in fact if you wet your fingers and take a small pinch of it, you can feel it dissolve as you rub the fingers together! And what's even nicer is that this product (Reptilite)is roughly half the price of most other calcium sands! I've been using it for four years now on a variety of geckos and other desert and savannah lizards with not a single impaction."
Brad Chambers