So for about 2 years now I've had my first leopard gecko, and I thought it was a boy..( just an assumption, actually)

And then i looked at two pics showing if its a male or a female...and................................................

i was pretty mad.

because i wanted a boy gecko lol.
It almost looks like shes a boy though, because theres nothing there..except for like a little flap....and a hole..

and then theres a bulge after that. so i wasnt sure..

COULD THIS POSSIBLY BE A HERMAPHIDITE GECKO?! haha

How long do geckos live for? I read online that some live to be only 7, but i guess they can live past 20?!.. on an average how long do they live for?
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1 leopard gecko- corona
1 japanese chin pup- layla
1 kitty- libby
1 fishie- hoodlum