Heres the point, a snake is immature, a baby, or juvinile until its ovaries develop or its gonads mature. Then when they mature, its a full functioning adult.
When a female develops eggs/ovum, she emitts phermones that signal males that she is ready to breed. She is attracting a male. There is reason for this. She is READY to breed. At this time, she is overtly asking to be bred. When you fail to allow a male to breed a cycled female, you are interfering with normal behavior.
If you are experiencing failures with young or small animals. Its not their fault, its your fault. YOU(whichever keeper) is FAILING to support that female.
Its very easy to see that a very large individual with lots of bulk(reserves) can overcome your errors. And a young small female, may not have the reserves to overcome your errors in husbandry. I have to wonder why many think its better to alter their activities then fix your husbandry.
What really bothers me is that sick attitude, It animal fails, so keepers blame the animals. OH my, how sad is that? Sirs and sirettes, its your/our stinking fault it an animal fails, get over it. Our job as keepers is to attempt to provide support. Its always an attempt. We can succeed and we can fail. But to automatically fail to avoid addressing your husbandry is not to good is it?
In captivity, reptiles give us signs that we are doing something wrong. These signs often end with their death and failures. That sir is how me measure our success. Its not to blame the animals. If they fail to do whats natural for them, they we are at fault.
Also, no one said you have to put a small female with a giant male. That is very odd. Try pairing a small female with a suitable sized male. Now normal does that sound?
All in all, if you have young ones fail, thats an indicator that your husbandry is marginal. No more, no less. Cheers