Thank you all for your replies, I really appreciate it. I will go into some detail, this will be long, so please bear with me:
I got my first very young Mali Uromastyx from Petsmart bred by Lasco, I purchased the second Uro from LLL Reptile.
When purchasing it I called LLL and explained to the seemingly knowledgable employee that I had a male sub-adult that would not eat anything but mealworms since I had gotten him home from Petsmart, where they had told me he was eating carrots. Since I had been to the LLL showroom and their Uros all appeared to be very hefty and eating well, I asked if adding a Uro to encourage better eating habits could help, he told me that seemed like a good plan and that he would pick me a very healthy female not much larger than my 7 inch male. He also assured me that they were healthy and eating well so I should not worry about the new one making my existing one sick and that putting them together right away "should be fine".
When I got the Uro she acted very strange, I thought because of the shipping, she also had what appeared to be shed build up on her neck. I put her in with my male and after about 15 minutes of getting acquainted they were fine together. Before this I had already taken my Uro to a vet for his feeding issues, the vet told me not to starve him, to just feed him the worms if he would eat them. After I got the second Uro and the non-eating spread to both of them I took him in to a different vet who did a wash and found the round worms and started me treating both Uros for this. I then made an appointment for the new Uro, when I took her in the doctor told me that the shed build up was actually 2nd degree burns. He showed me how to tube feed organic veggie baby food to the Uros, which I have been doing since. They have been putting on weight, but her poops are still sooooo runny and smelly, sometimes bloody. His are solid and normal smelling, but he is so lethargic.
Today I got her to eat a horn worm and he ate 3 mealworms, this is the 1st time they have have willingly eaten anything since I got her in March, but I also know that this is not what they are supposed to be eating. Below is a list of what I have offered them:
Romaine, mustard greens, collard greens, bok choy, carrots, passion fruit, strawberries, banana, apple, carrot baby food, mixed veggie baby food, crickets, silk worms, meal worms, wax worms, horn worms, jump-start. I'm sure I am leaving something out. I am at my wit's end. I'm trying to see if I can sell them to someone who has experience with Uros because I feel that I am failing them as a caretaker. I am very attached to the cb male, but have issues with the female now that I know she is wc, I just feel so bad about having purchased her at all, she really hates captivity.
Anything you can add after reading my novel is VERY appreciated!
Since this, I have

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Greg 'n' Jenee
^1 Frilled Dragon *Pat*
^2 Chameleons *Captain & Commando, The Chameleon Squad*
^2 Mali Uromastyx *Mr Pink & Chica*
^3 Pictus Geckos *Beastie Boy & His Harem*
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