If she had ovulated you should have seen considerably thickening in her mid-body, and might even have felt the ovum as she crawled through your hand, with your thumb pressed gently into her belly. Generally speaking, there are visual clues to her readiness, and you need not go only by the "calendar", be it "so-many-months" or "so-many-sheds".
I think the general guidelines in the books, which Kerby notes, are worthwhile, even though he's correct and exceptions sometiimes occur. (Kerby, it seems you've had more than your share of very unusual reproductive events in your collection). I do believe that if you started trying to breed Hondurans a week or two out of brumation you'd create more problems than solutions, for example, and that you're better served observing closely and then managing the breeding process.
So Capnmoby, how about giving us some more information: How is the male eating? Would the female take three mice per week? Have you observed considerable thickening in her body, compared to his? Try the crawl-thru-the-hands technique: Do you feel any small marble-sized bumps as she moves through your hands? Have you ever put them together? Your email doesn't say. If you have, what happened when you did? All this information will help you get a lot better insight from the forum as to what's going on.
But I don't think you need to give up completely yet. Tell us more.
Terry