Keep in mind that uromastyx do not have to breed for the female to produce eggs.
I am not suggesting that mating did not take place between these two, just that it does not have to for the female to produce eggs.
I have not witnessed a male voluntarily going off feed due to a female being gravid but have witnessed a sudden increase in the appetite in many females early on in the breeding season and in the early part of gestation. I have witnessed only one gravid female that became more aggressive at the food dish (ornate) where the male had to be removed. If your friend’s female has become more aggressive in feeding, the male may not be eating due to intimidation. This scenario could take place whether or not the one animal is gravid.
Many of my males will slack off eating close to oviposition and stay inside the hide or out of the female’s way a few days immediately leading up to the big event.
Regarding your friends situation….. If the male geyri is only two years old and the mali is half the size of the geyri, it is unlikely that the uromastyx would be sexually mature.
Given the few details you have provided, I think that your friend should look into the possibility that these two uromastyx are both males and shift focus to determining the sex. You mention a tussle between the two and that this all started after brumation. Brumation is often a breeding stimuli that results in males falling into a heightened state of aggression toward other males.
You also mention that the mali is suddenly growing and exhibiting dominance over enclosure items like the hide. When one animal starts to dominate the other, they typically defend things like the hide, basking spot, food dish…ect. It would stand to reason that the dominant animal in this situation would be gaining weight and growing at a faster pace than the submissive one that is stressed, has less access to food, and less access to the basking spot to aid in the digestion of the food it does manage to find.
Removing the submissive male from the enclosure should result in the response you witnessed- the submissive animal eagerly feeding.
Your post indicated that you do not want to be cross-examined about this subject and yet this is the second thread you have started on the topic of your friend’s uromastyx. Maybe it be best if your friend found his/her way here and posted? Knowing details such as the length and weight of each animal, having photos of the two, and having someone that can answer questions about the topic being posted about would be helpful when trying to discuss the situation.