1) whats the average size they get? do males or females get bigger?
I've heard that they can grow anywhere from 5-7 feet long. My Mac will probably be "smallish" because he's been so finicky about eating. He's eating well CURRENTLY, but has been so cotton-picking difficult to get on a regular schedule.
2) what is the proper cage size for a hatchling? adult?
Mac is currently in a 10 gallon tank and he's VERY comfortable now. I think that because he's so shy, he appreciates the smaller quarters. I'll move him up to a 20 gallon when he's over 2 feet long and eating regularly.
3) I live in az, so i assume a undertank heater will be sufficent?
I live in Phoenix, but still use an UTH because I was always told to provide the "thermal gradient" of 75 degrees on the lower end and 85-90 on the higher end. LOL. During the winter, even with room temps at a CONSTANT 75 and the UTH, Mac went off his food. He was just a hatchling and seemed far too small to brumate (he still seems kinda small to brumate which has me worried about this winter).
4) how should i feed it? 2-3 times a week?
I used to try to feed Mac in a separate tank, but as discussed, he was so very difficult. So I asked a herp expert at one of the local Reptile Centers for help and he suggested to feed him in his own tank on a plate (to prevent substrate ingestion). He's been eating fine since then (I also put dark paper on 3 sides of his tank and put something removable on the front so that he doesn't get disturbed every time someone walks by). He's finally growing and looking good, but I'm still worried about this winter. LOL.
5) lastly can someone point me in the direction of a good caresheet?
Sorry, can't help you there... I've found that trying what is offered here on KS.com and at the local Reptile Centers has been very helpful for me.
I've included an OLD pic of Mac. He's just a little bigger now that back then.
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