If your goal is to keep pairs together, then you should of started with babies and raised them together. I published that in the mid ninties. Its still accurate today.
If for whatever reason your not going the best way and want to put adults together. First you have to understand, you have to live with the results, whatever they are.
In my experience, they normally do not fight right off. In fact, they may never fight. But they rarely become pairs. They may even mate, but if kept together, the male will eat the eggs, or attack the female after or during laying, or the female may attack the male after she lays. Those types of things are far more common then fighting. And there are many more of those negative behaviors that occur.
When you have good pairs, the different sexes actually help eachother. Not hinder eachother. Also consider, sometimes there are no problems and they work well, rare as that may be.
Or you can keep them seperate and put the female in with the male when she cycles. But you do have to know when that is. Even at that, they can still fight. Then seperate them after she has been fertilized. But again, you have to know when that is, Do you?
The easist method and the method with the highest succes are the same, raise babies together. After that, your playing percentages, no matter what or how you do it.
Older animals do not pair up well, and the problem is mostly the females. Some species are much worse then others, like old argus females(old gouldi complex females) Or even storrs.
So yes, there are many many variables. But it all leads to this, do it right(easist way) and your chances of success are many times greater. Do it the hard way and your chances of success are many many times less. Its your choice.
About putting two together. The size of the cage or how many hides or lites is totally meaningless. If one wants to get the other it will, I don't care if the cage is 20 by 20. I say that because I have a cage that size and if a monitor, even a tiny one, did not want another around, if will follow the other over hill and dale. I take that back, the smaller the cage, the faster one catches the other and more often. The larger the cage, it takes a few more minutes or hours. But the result is the same.
Lets say we do not like eachother(don't care what sex you are) If we are stuck in a closet, I will go after you and fists will fly. So then put us in the front room. I think the same will happen. So put us in the gym, it will take longer but I am still going to get you. Put us in the convention center, it may take days to find you, and I may not look for a while, but eventually I will. Open the doors and let us out. Well now you and I can now go our seperate ways. Most here are only talking about size difference from the closet to the frontroom. Cheers