I have dealt with chameleons with missing tongues a few times. They can learn to eat without their tongues...it just takes patience.
You said..."I have been hand feeding her for the last 2 weeks
I was wondering if anyone has had this happen to them and can offer any advice on the matter"...if you continue to hand feed her and then start to hold the bug a little further away, she will soon figure out that she has to go after the bug and can't use her tongue to eat anymore.
You said..."I was also wondering if anyone has tried feeding baby food and if so what type"...if she's willing to eat when you hand feed her, then you don't really need to give her baby food.
You said..."My girl is sick"...sick with what? Because of the loss of her tongue?
If you have any more questions, just ask!