I've had my Cali Kingsnake for about 4 months now, and it is my first snake. He/She is about 14.5 to 15 inches in length, so I am not sure exactly how old it is. Lately, as in the past couple months, I've been very busy with work and school and homework and whatever time I have left I don't really have time to handle my snake. I've probably only been handling my kingsnake about once a week although I'm sure a 2 week period has gone by somewhere in there. Today when I wanted to handle my kingsnake it struck at me and shook its tale like crazy and just looked so pissed off. I eventually picked it up and it calmed down but once back in its tank it curled up an shook its tail if I got near the tank, although as I write this it he/she is a bit more calm when I near the tank.
So my first question is, how often should I be handling my kingsnake? I really don't want to neglect it, and I really fear that if I don't handle it enough it will just be a mean untrusting snake when it gets to be an adult.
My other question is, how long does it take for a snake to build trust and be calm with its owner?
The issue of how much time I can devote to my snake without it feelings like a hassle will decide whether or not I should get another one, I really want a western hognose! But maybe now is not the time, an once I'm out of college I'll probably be going to graduate school...oy 



I would suggest consistent handling of once or twice per week (for about five to ten minutes per session) regardless of how the snake acts. Once the snake builds some trust it should decrease, if not stop, the defensive behavior. Hope this helps.
