I'm so sorry for you!
I just went through this... I still get all itchy just thinking about them.
They are not caused by temps, they are caused by coming in direct contact with them, or their eggs. Usually through prey (live), another animal, or possibly you could bring them in if you came in contact with a contaminated animal at a show...
FYI There is an interesting article about them at VPI's site
I was advised to be very aggressive with these parasites, or they can easily get out of control.
Provent-a-mite worked for me. Luckily one of my snake buddies had some on hand, so I didn't have to wait for it to arrive.
While I was waiting for the cages/racks to dry, I soaked the animals in a warm (not hot) tub of slightly soapy water.This will drown live mites (but not eggs). I also used reptile relief (available in most pet stores)directly on the animals.I found it much easier to to saturate a paper towel with the reptile relief, and then wipe the (dry) animal down. (instead of directly spraying the animal).
Make sure you read the directions on all mite treatments carefully!
I switched all the substrate to unprinted news print ,so I could more easily see any new mites (and happily mite carcasses)I treated everything in sight ( all animals, cages, rack, nearby carpets etc..),
The entire treatment should be repeated 2 weeks later in case any eggs survived.
So far so good for me!
Good Luck!
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