Nerkhunts,
Do you read what you write? Yes, you do need to know how to handle(and restrain if need) a five foot monitor lizard before you bring one into your care. I am not an expert, nor do I proclaim to be. I have experience, I have been at this herp thing for some 20 years, but I am still no expert.
I have friends who handle their reptiles, but they also do shows for education(and a living). Is it harmful, well, that is controversial, but I can say that some of them have had to replace animals frequently and all of them have been handling longer than you. I think far too much stress is placed on petting and not enough on proper keeping. Besides, I find the training method of conditioning to be far more interesting and safe. You know, like the whales at Sea World... No, my lizards don't jump through hoops(probably would for a rat!) but I can get in with my seven and eight footers safely, move them if I have to and feed all without handling. (This worked with big crocs, all accept for the cubans!) They are unstressed in their enclosures and I am relatively safe from bites. This is probably too much toying around for good nesting with monitors... Anyways, I have worked some herps from hatchlings to adults to eggs again, tropical turtles, tortoises, some crocs, snakes and lizards. I have gone from WC adults to eggs to hatchlings to CB adults again- which I found to be difficult in some(not monitors)- but I am still not an expert... Not like Frank Retes at all, heck, I have never hatched a varanid egg! I plan to change this and will... I will however say that I have not read any posts by you that have lead me to better practice to date. I hope that you will change this... But I must ask, given your limited experience, do you feel comfortable giving advise to others who may be entrusting the lives of their lizards to your guidance? Think about this... Best to you- Mike