If there is anything I can help you with it would be one thing. What is in your lap is not a monitors. But a poor reptile made to be something its not. You call that a nile, its no longer a nile and its no longer a monitor.
These type pics, make me want to get all wild animals out of private hands(and I am a private hand)
You call yourself a person who rescues reptiles, that is not a rescue. Thats varanid torture.
I am sure your a nice person. But I hope you someday learn, that your dogs only do that because they were forced too. Over long periods of time they were selected(culls killed off) and line bred to BE subservent to man(males best friend) So now, dogs are line bred to do whats in your pic.
Unfortunately monitors are not line bred and are not dogs and surely do not act like one. Your picture is horrifying and akind to a slave master in a pic with slaves.
By now I am sure you are mad as a hornet, but please understand, that animal(the monitor) is like a hornet. It does not sting, but it has no need for you. Unless you take away all things normal and useful to it. Its a wild animal.
And please do not be naive and say, monitors can be tamed. Sir, monitors are tame, but they still are monitors. Allow that monitor to be a monitors(i believe you have no idea what that is)
Its times like this that I totally agree with Reptile authors like Danniel Bennett(and many others). His statement of "monitors in boxes" applys. No, its not just that their kept in boxes, its about their normal natural behavior is in a box(boxed up and hidden).
Sadly in captivity, we can most likely never allow monitors to be 100%, but we should strive to allow them to be as much of what they are, as we can. Your pic displays total human dominace and proves that humans have the power to take all things normal to a species away and force them to be like us.
You could particapate in something natural to it, like help it dig up some croc eggs. Thats doing something it likes. Of course there are many other things natural to it you could help it with.
Heres the deal, a normal monitor is curious, they are kinda like a ferret, when awake, they HAVE to investigate everything in their area. They have no patience, They are egotistical and narsissistic. Its all about them. They have a fire in their eyes(a life)No fire in the eyes, no life in their brain.
They have real natural behaviors, much like your dogs. Males guard and protect their belongings. That thing in your lap is a male. Let it be a male. Monitors are many wonderful things, but they should be allowed to FIRST be a monitor, then second become your partner(friend). Yes, they form partnerships, like for hunting and other tasks.
If your niles was allowed to be a nile, you would not have a blanket on it, in order to properly function, they must have a high body temp. IF they don't they do not leave their burrows/shelters. If your nile was properly warmed up, you would be sweating. And it would tail wack those dogs(and you too), there is no question about that. Why is there no question, because male monitors must maintain an order, just like you and your dogs. Tail wacking is social positioning, not being mean. Its simply what they do.
In that pic, there is an order, your dominate, and animals are at your feet.
I hope you understand(but I doubt it) that this post is not meant to make you mad, but instead for you to wake up and understand that animal in you lap really does(can) have a life. Then learn to allow it a life. Once you do, they you can make friends with it. I hope to give you respect for that animal, enough respect that you put your wishes aside(real love) and allow it to mostly be a monitor. Before you turn it into a subhuman.
First and foremost, monitors are not yet domesticated. Dogs are. Dogs cuddle(pack animal) monitors are not warm blooded, therefore have not developed a behavior to cuddle. They will seek warmth from non animal sources. To force them to seek warmth on you is placing them in a compromised position.
Monitors are much like people, they think they are superior. That is what makes them so much fun. You think your superior(just look at your pic).
If you did not, you would be laying on a sand bank, basking in the hot sun, after fishing for crabs and such. You make the monitor do human things. Why not join your monitor in doing monitor things. After all, you have the power to do that.(you ARE superior)
That animal in your lap is a BOOK of something wild and natural. ITs full of totally captivating behaviors. Its life has been scarficed to be in captivity. At least you can allow it to teach you what a monitor is. Not turn it into a child.
I do apologise for the rant, yes, its an early mourning coffee rant. Later in the day, I would simply avoid seeing such a horrible sight. Its simply to sad and disturbing. Whats worse, so many KIDS will see this and want to destroy a living animal. Just like your doing.