both sexes have the spurs and there is very little difference in the size, so you can't use the spurs as an accurate means of sexing crested geckos. If you see a noticeable bulge and from the picture you provided, it is obviously a male. The bulges will not go away if they appear, but many 'females' have developed bulges as they grew older but never heard of the reverse.
Crested geckos can also be sexed by the pores near their vents, but these are very small and hard to see without some sort of magnifying glass. Typically by 6-9 months of age, you can easily sex geckos by the presence of the hemipenial bulge, but for females to be sure, I would wait till 9 months, as some 'females' are late bloomers and suddenly turn male.
I also suggest not to house males together, even if they have been getting along till now. Males can be very territorial and unless they are in a really large cage with tons of visual barriers (ie leaves etc), there is a chance they will start fighting with or without the presence of a female.
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