Yeah...you and I usually see eye to eye on most issues. As far as the eggs go, I made a commitment after my first clutch years ago to simply leave them alone. I think you can only screw things up the more you mess with them. A couple of years ago I was even able to leave town for a weeks vacation with an incubator full of eggs.
Now my first clutch was a different stroy...I was in the incbator every day. Inpecting the eggs, checking the dampness of my substrate, making sure everything was going well, checking the eggs, showing off the eggs, making sure the probe was in the right place, checking on the eggs, checking for condensation, checking the eggs, etc. You think there is any correlation between my interaction and the fact that 2 eggs died early, 2 eggs died late, and two of the babies had slight phsical deformities? Since I've gone to Ron Popiel's "set it and forget it" mentality, I've probably hatched 99.5% of my fertile eggs. Eggs are tougher than we think, and generally don't need our help.