All these questions are easy for me. The answer is, to do them right is to do with for the best results, at your house with your monitor. How you do them is up to you, and to be determined by your monitor. If you do things right, it will eat like a pig(normal for monitors) and grow like a weed(normal for monitors) If not, you suck and applied it wrong. Don't get mad at me, its your monitor thats telling you, you suck. Don't take it so hard, was all suck, get over it, you suck. You SUCK.
The truth is, we do all suck, so your not alone, our task is to not suck. Work at it.
About captive hatched, who gives a flying doorknob. That term is only of benefit before you incure problems. After you have problems, it does not matter. As in, if you had good husbandry, you have a lower chance of unforseen problems with captive hatched(fewer pre-exsisting problems) Not so with wild caught. Even with good husbandry, bad things can happen. You can avoid most of that with great husbandry, sadly, not much great husbandry around these days.
That you have problems means, its does not matter. You see, your having the problems captive hatched is suppose to avoid. So, IT DOES NOT MATTER, GET OVER IT( Two nights ago, while herping my good friends son played a type of this New York comic, I am copying him, with the yelling stuff, its FUNNY. FUNNY, get over it.
Or, wild caught vs. captive hatched, an ethical delimma. Which is not what we are talking about.
Worrying about if you dwarfed it or not is naive, or worse, worthless, stupid, ignorant, or combinations of all those and more. Why not simply do the best you can and live with the results. If you actually learn something, then next time, you can allow better results, then the next time better, etc.
What monitors do in captivity and the wild is, they grow up and produce lots of offspring OR NOT. Most likely you will not keep the monitor long enough to allow the growth and recruitment, or any degree of their potential, so, no matter what you have already done, its going to be the "or not" part. I say that because, thats what happens 99% of the time, OR MORE, with captive monitors. ITS THE TRUTH.
You challange is to beat those odds. So I recomend, just beat those odds, at first by a little, then maybe by a lot later.
Most of the "experts" on these forums do not beat those odds. So be careful who you listen to. Cheers