" Snakes don't get fat like people and mammals do. Especially snakes that are growing. If a snake looks fat that means it is healthy. "
That statement is actually an oxymoron, and every breeder and biologist I know would disagree.
"Tom and a few others have started feeding their snakes larger meals and more often and have experienced only healthy results "
So have I with my collection. 
" By starving a snake making it not ovulate is like taking a female fashion model and starving her causing her to go off her monthly period (LOL!) I think that some of you also think that snakes should "look" a certain way and dictate what a snake should look like and not... "
Bad example. Feeding a snake one or two mice a week is not starving. It is different than what you do and your agenda, which is to breed a snake at the earliest that it possibly can. That is something we have to disagree on.
" Offering captive snakes many choices and you will have healthier, happier snakes. Take those chioces away and we might as well revert to the old TFH books and snake keeping of the 70's. But trying to make the snakes do what we think is healthy and offering them better choices will still not compare to the chioces a snake has in the wild but we have to try and undertand that its not us that make those choices based on our thinking what "we' think a snake should eat, breed, brumate ect. Its the snake we need to listen to."
Yes, offering captive snakes more choices is a great idea to follow. That I agree with you on. One thing you have to understand though is captivity Vs. the wild for snakes is two totally different stories no matter what we do as keepers. Being confined to their cage changes the whole story. They have the whole earth to roam in the wild, but in captivity, no such thing. All that exercise they could be getting in the wild to work off big meals ain't happening in captivity, no matter how big their cage is. Two different things.
" ...at least by offerring food several times per week and if the snake eats, guess what, it needed to. "
That is like saying that if I eat a meal of 20 chicken wings, a small pizza, a pound of fries, and two beers each night because I can must mean that from a health standpoint, that is what I should do. That is not healthy at all. That means, I will gain weight probably. Guess what excess weight does? It causes health problems. Just because something CAN doesn't make it always the healthiest decision. My example shows just that. Same with kids. They may WANT to eat candy all the time for every meal, so I guess we should just give them all they want. Nope. Why not? It is just not the healthiest thing to allow them to do.
Take care!
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