A couple of things, First, have patience. Second, monitors do not mature at a set rate. They mature based on many things, LIKE YOUR CONDITIONS and Their own impact on eachother. You may want to understand this, the leading expert in breeding monitors(self admitted in court) said it takes 8 years for ackies to reach sexual maturity. So now you have a range of 11 months to 8 years. Yours are still well within normal.
Yes, I have had an ackie lay at 11 inches TL. But it was a yellow ackie, not a red, and yours are reds. And it was one extreme out of many many hundred individuals. Not something you should expect with THREE individuals and from newbie care(not that your bad or anything).
The reality is, your animals look great. You paid the band, now you should listen to the music. All you can do is wait it out.
The thing about red ackies is, SOME females have huge spurs. But they are soft compared to a males.
Lastly sexing a young monitor over the internet is silly and only for fun. Its nothing to do with reality. So my guess is, you have one male. at least, maybe, or not, or 2 or a female, or not, or three, or not, or 2.1 or 1.2., or 3.0 or 0.3., Don't forget the possibility of he/shes or she/hes. Hey I bet I got it right. Please just have fun and wait.
For sexing correctly over the internet, an individual monitor MUST DISPLAY a huge degree of ONE or more characteristics. If that does not occur, then we go back to being silly and having fun. Cheers