I think any time someone posts a long, opinionated essay in response to someone's post, question, or photo & that person was not asking for input on that particular topic...then yes, no matter how sound or well-meaning the advice, it is being force-fed.
There are a lot of topics on forums that have a lot of people "sharing" their advice...co-habitation, hybrids, feeding live rodents to snakes, feeding dry dog food to feeder mice...the list goes on.
I can't even count how many times I've seen posts that say something like "these are my two corns and the cage they live in" and people jump all over them. Or someone posting a pic of 2 snakes together but starting the post by saying "I only have them together for the photo so don't jump on me" (this one was right here on the corn forum).
Hybrids...I will never forget the time on the pituophus forum when a well respected guy in Texas said a young neighbor of his had purchased a snake and it looked to him to be a hybrid; well this guy righteously declared to everyone that he gave that kid a purebred snake and took that hybrid in the house and "put it down". If this guy posted a long essay about hybrids in response to every post with a creamsicle pic it would get old after a while.
I see "can I keep two corns together" posts every once in a while, in my opinion that would be the perfect time for "sound advice" about co-habitation.
A lot of us here have a lot of experience and with that experience comes opinions...well, I think we should share those opinions when people ask for them, not throw our opinions at people when we think they need to hear them.
Hope I didn't offend anyone...just sharing some thoughts

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