I wouldn't handle them for a while - at least a month. Geyri are very prone to stress. Give them a chance to get settled in and make sure they are healthy and eating before worrying about taming.
If you can give more details about the enclosure(s) that will help - size in inches, lighting, temperatures (basking, ambient warm side, cool side), number and types of hides, etc.
I would recommend keeping them in large, separate enclosures - at least until you can determine they are healthy. If you haven't already done so, take a fecal sample from each animal (also easier in separate enclosures) to your herp vet to check for parasites. Imports are frequently carrying a parasite load which worsens as the animal is stressed by the importation process. This can lead to lethargy like you're seeing with the female.
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Torey
Eugene, Oregon, USA
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