I saw your message, while am waiting to see if there'll be any advises on helping my poor turtle. I hope she feels better soon. To your question, I always holds my turtle. She loves it and loves to stay on my body as well. She stayed on my back to bask during weekend. I would make sure cleaning hands well after handling her. I am not a turtle or reptile expert, but happen to be a very good friend with one accidentally found RES for 2yrs now. It might be that I had her since she was a hatchling. All amazing experiences with the turtle started then. I am not sure if you can tame an older one. Mine will walk follow me, (mostly) come to see me when I call her up, and (many times) listen when I tell her to stop biting things. But I am careful not to let her have a chance to really bite me though. They are animals. Don't know everything. If yours are not too old, may be you still can tame him or her and can see an amazing side of a pet turtle. Good luck.