Of course they know they are monitors in a box. Why would they know? If you were rasied in a box, you would know its a box, wouldn't you.
And yes it is sad in many ways. But thats really only part of the story. The REALITY IS, many monitors are ALREADY in boxes, and we as caring people should do the best we can to make those have the best conditions possible. AND, we have a huge responsibility to get the most out of each and every individual.
We have FAR more responsibility to get everything we can from wild caught monitors, as we took them from nature. Which is more and more appearing to be a limited resource.
Understanding this backs up many of my rants and approaches. We need to allow all captive monitors the ability to attain lifes basic events, which I mention all the time. You know, to grow(prosper) to select mates(socialize), the mate, to nest, to hatch(recruit) and to repeat that to a meaningful lenght of time.
Lifes events start with a Home, all wild monitors seek and use a base home within its area/range. They may also have other homes that are needed for different reasons, usually seasonal needs. In captivity, several is great, but at least one home is NEEDED.
If your monitor gets out, the first thing it will do is seek a base shelter(safty) and stay there, then wander out and seek a BETTER shelter, etc etc. If it cannot find a better shelter, it will stay at the one it has. This is what monitors DO. captive or otherwise.
They then base their life events from these shelters/homes, whatever you want to call them. The real adjective is, its their base, the base of their lifes and the base of their lifes events. A HOME
Retes boards, deep substrate, tree hollows, etc, are the tools these monitors use to build their home base. They do not like hides from a petshop, oh unless you bury the dang thing and stomp on it a few times.
Daniel Bennett started the saying of "monitors in boxes" And I took that from him and used it. Its my opinion that he saw it that way because he saw wild monitors, he saw their look, their abilities, their EYES, their attitudes, etc, etc, and he did not see any of that in monitors in boxes. And I totally agreed with him, except for the monitors in my boxes. I allowed them homes and life events and to socialize, etc.
He came here and saw that and that confused him, as he saw them volunterily work in social groups and breed, and cycle and nest, and hatch and form eggs etc etc . You know all things wild monitors must do, but Daniel never saw wild monitors do such things or captive. He saw things he never saw anywhere.
So yes your right, in captivity they will always be confined in a box of one size or another, but you can still allow SOME OR MUCH of what they would do in nature. And we do not have to let them become prey for everything that eats them and we do not have to let them starve(nature does that alot)
But to keep them in boxes and not allow them to achieve ANYTHING but a heartbeat is a sin against nature and should be illegal. I guess most of this is not so cheerful, so no cheers on this subject. Chow