When we got our BP, I held him a lot... about every other day, trying to get him and I used to eachother. We fed him 10 days after we got him, allowing time for him to know this tank is his home, and all that...
I feed live right now - please don't move this discussion to that debate, been there, done that - and he ate without hesitation. He didn't seem to attack SO quickly that he was starving - he hunted the mouse, stalked the mouse, and waited until the right moment, and *BAM* dinner was ready!
He has always eaten great for me, a patient hunter, not a lazy diner.
I knew little about my boy when I got him, but have been learning here since I found you all. However, I get discouraged when people "guess" at what the snake wants. I know, that's all we can do, and there are some fail-safe signs of stress, like not eating, or whatever. However, if his snake seems happy being held, let's not criticize until he attemps to feed, and the snake shows signs of stress. If he doesn't eat on the first attempt, after being handled quite a bit, then I would suggest a break for a week from handling, and try to feed again.
Maybe his snake is happy being held, and thrives on the attention? Maybe he is now wondering why no one is holding him all of the sudden? No one knows, but the owner can go off of his pet's reactions, how relaxed he is when being handled, and from being with him daily, getting to know his snake.
I am not an expert. I am a learner, but we all love our snakes, and want the best for them. That's why I am speaking up now. We all know, maybe a little too well, that each snake has his/her own personality, likes, dislikes, and preferences. I toast to learning those preferences, and celebrating them!
thanks-
Muggle
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