I usually offer fuzzies for the first meal - as I feel the snake will be more comfortable eating a notch smaller meal for its first couple of meals in its new home. Do you know what it was (and if it was eating) before you got it?
I thaw my feeders in a zip lock bag in room temp water until they are completely at room temp. I thaw 14 hoppers and weaned mice for about 2.5 to 3 hours (my rat feeding day it takes about 4 hours for them to come to room temp). After they are completely thawed - I change the water to about 95 degrees or so for about 20 minutes. I then change to 100 degree water for 10 to 15 minutes. I try to make sure I am not cooking the mice.
I use a feeding container for my smaller snakes. Babies are usually fed in a about a 4 inch by 4 inch disposable plastic food container. Once they are eating well and get a bit bigger I switch them over to a shoe box container. The snakes are placed in the container for about 1/2 hour prior to feeding.
I offer the mouse off the tongs and many will strike and coil it. Others will not - so I place the mouse in with the snake - most of these will eat it eventually. I cover all of the feeding containers with a blanket for darkness and to lesson the sounds and sights of activity within the house. I let the snakes feed for at least 1 hour undisturbed.
For stubborn eaters, that did not eat within the hour period, I usually place the feeding container in the rack system near the heat source and give them additional time - a couple of hours. If they still don't eat - I place them back in their rack space without eating.
If a snake has not ate for two weeks, I will then feed a a small live audult mouse (Pretty much the same size as a frozen weaned mouse). My closest place I can get feeder mice does not have hopper sized - this and the fact they are only eating every two weeks are the reason I use this size mice. I do not have any that will not eat the live animal.
Currently out of the 11 most recent babies I have bought I have 2 that are not 100% switched over to frozen thawed. They will sometimes eat f/t, but then go a couple of weeks refusing them (so they get a live one). One of my early 07 babies I bought took about 3 months to get switched over and has not refused a f/t for a few months.
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Mike
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