Okay... let's see what we can do.
>>I've had him 1mth
>>in a 65gal reptarium
At least it is screen - not an aquarium. But, as mentioned, the fabric can block most of the UV put out by special reptile bulbs.
>>many bendable vines and fake flora
Bendable vines are good... but you really need to get live plants. Do you have a Home Depot in your area? Go down to their plant dept and pick out a 10" golden umbrella plant - or a croton plant - and use that for height and hiding places. The best thing about buying these plants from HD is their 1yr guarantee on the plant.
You can also place a 6" pothos lower in the enclosure. The leaves on any of these plants provide excellent surfaces for drinking. If you can, place river rock over the surface of the dirt of the plants - this way, you don't have to change the dirt. Wash the plants (either outside or in your shower) with a mild soapy water, and then rinse, rinse, rinse. To prevent the soil from getting to soggy while you do this - cover it with plastic garbage bag or grocery sack. Once the plants dry off, put them in the enclosure and arrange your vines around the plants.
You didn't mention watering... you need to mist at least twice per day, and provide dripping water twice. Keep in mind that chameleons not only drink to hydrate themselves, but their bodies absorb moisture through their nasal linings. The humidity needs to be kept up while he is re-hydrating.
Even a shower (on one of his plants) can help re-hydrate him. You might also try Pedialite (buy the small bottles - it loses its punch after opening - read the label). This can be offered with an eye dropper - or even the drip-cup.
>>100watt incandescent (basking area)
>>60watt on the cooler end
Too much heat. The 60 watt should be sufficient on one end - but be careful not to rest the light too close to the plastic netting of the reptarium - it may melt.
>>8.0 ESU florescent UV
>>lights are on 12 on 12 off exactly
This is good. But when winter comes - it can be adjusted to 10-14.
>>1dzn dusted Lrg Crickets
Don't forget to vary his feeder insects - and dust with Rep-Cal calcium once a week - if he less than 6" or longer (snout to vent). If larger, twice per month should be sufficient. A mineral dusting (Miner-All) is good monthly.
>>hes in the basement, low traffic area very quiet
>>no windows
Many folks report that the basement can be good - but others find it too dank and depressing. If he was in an opposite environment with your friend (upstairs or by a window), the change may have upset him. Once he is not so dehydrated, you may want to try taking him outdoors for brief periods of sunlight. If he is in the basement with all your other herps - and can see some of them - especially snakes - he will be depressed - even freaked out of his skin. I would be too, thinking I could be eaten by something across the room.
>>my vet is calling me back tomorrow
Great... hopefully, he is a herp vet, and will have some experience with veiled. Be sure and tell him about the environment he is kept in. Most of this is really important to proper husbandry.
Keep us posted...
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