>>im scared that:
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>>1. my leopard gecko wont find my feeding dish
>>2. my leopard gecko wont drink/find my water dish
>>3. "" wont find/use my calcium dish
>>4. "" wont know how to use my moist hide
>>5. "" will attempt to eat my paper towel substrate
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>>can anyone give me some calming stuff to settle me down?
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>>p.s. of course i dont have a gecko yet
First off, it's good that you're asking questions before getting the gecko - that's definitely much preferable to having an animal and not knowing how to take care of it.
In answer to your questions, #1-3 are covered by the fact that a terrarium, realistically, is a very small place. A healthy gecko will go exploring right away (mine does this every time I put her back in hers after handling her), and therefore will find all three of those things. They will drink when they're thirsty, they'll eat calcium when/if they need it (mine rarely touches hers, but YMMV on that one, especially depending on how you supplement prey items), and as far as a food dish goes, I just have a really hard time believing that a hungry gecko won't find that.
#4 is not something to worry about; they know what's comfortable for them, and depending on ambient humidity levels, some of them will spend tons of time in the humid hide and others won't bother with it. Just make sure they've got the option available and they'll handle it.
#5 is really not something to worry about. Their feeding response is triggered by movement, and substrate doesn't move. Mealworms wiggle, crickets run around, paper towels lie flat. I promise you a gecko has no interest in eating paper towels. For that matter, they have no real interest in eating sand either; impactions happen when they accidentally ingest it with their prey items, which, given that paper towels lie flat, is not an issue with them.
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