My female three-toed arrived yesterday, and I am a bit confused about a couple of issues. Primarily, her sheer size completely overshadows my male three-toed, which I hoped to be her "companion," so to speak. My male three-toed is not over 5 or so inches, while the female I received is way over 6! She is also much wider and has a much higher shell than he. Her head, neck and limbs are all larger as well. I would estimate 1.3-1.5x the mass. Yes, I'm sure she is a female, and she has three toes on her back feet (which may or may not mean anything).
The appearance is also markedly different. My male has a very light, tan shell and he has some attractive creamsicle-like oranges and yellows on his limbs. While I realize that females are supposed to be duller in appearance on the limbs, her shell is much, much darker--a muddy brown, if I had to name it.
So, god-like experts on all things three-toed, here are my questions:
1) First of all, is this really a three-toed female, or could it be a Gulf Coast? I know little of that subspecies, but I know that many of them appear to be slightly darker and larger versions of three-toeds.
2) Would these two be sexually compatible? Does the relative size of the female make mating more or less likely? Can a much smaller male truly attract and then successively mount a female?
3) On that tract, will the much larger specimen intimidate daily the smaller, or will one or the other feel threatened and be hostile? Does a disparity in size cause mistrust and nervousness among box turtles?
4) If they are really both three-toeds, is my male exceptionally small and my female just exceptionally big?
Thank you for your help, and I look forward to hearing all of your insights on this strange little match I've made... Best of luck in all your turtling endeavours!
~Jason

