VALLEY MORNING STAR (Harlington, Texas) 04 April 08 Facing their fears (Clarissa Martinez)
Mercedes: An unexpected mix of students and reptiles came together at the Ruben Hinojosa Elementary School gym Friday morning.
Some students had snakes wrapped around their limbs while others had iguanas perched on their head.
Ken Henderson, a reptile expert turned motivational speaker, spoke to the students about the importance of respect in relationships - both human-to-human and human-to-animals.
The reptiles helped students recognize their fears, and see that they can indeed, overcome them, Henderson said.
"Respect is a part of love," he said, as he explained to the children the correct way to handle the reptiles.
Henderson told the students that if they were scared they could stand near the back of the exhibit, away from the area where the snakes would soon slither.
Students nervously giggled as at least a third of the group inched away from their classmates.
But, as soon as Henderson brought out the reptiles, handing them to the students who had outstretched hands, the two groups merged into one curious bunch.
"I hope this is empowering you," Henderson said. "And I hope you can see that you can help each other and build good relationships together."
But snakes, including a python, weren't the only reptiles Henderson had for the students to see. A 100-year-old giant tortoise and a tame alligator were also showcased at the event.
Aaron Rodriguez, a fourth-grader, said he held a turtle and snake and also petted the alligator.
"I have two at home," Aaron said about the turtles. "These were cool."
But Millenia Diaz, a fourth-grader, said she was a little scared of the snakes, but was finally able to pet one. But the turtles were still her favorite.
Fourth-grade teacher Jennifer Salinas said she thought the message Henderson shared was important.
"I think it's good for students to learn how to respect all animals and get over their fears," Salinas said. "It helps them be confident. And, not just with animals, but with life in general."
Salinas was even encouraged by the students' courage.
One young student continued to approach Salinas several times as a snake twisted around his arms.
"That little boy was, like, chasing me down," Salinas said, with a laugh to another teacher. "He finally got me to pet that snake."
Henderson said the lesson will stay with the children through their lives, mentioning how a student he once spoke to 10 years ago was able to pick up a snake while in Honduras.
"And everyone else could not believe she could do that," he said. "The father was so proud and called me to tell me."
But for Henderson, teaching children about empowerment in relationships is what can make them sweep fear away.
"Tomorrow, when you wake up, I want you to turn to your mirror and say, I love me,'" Henderson said to the group of students. "And then take that love and share it with others. Walk down the hall, and share it with your brother, sister or parents."
Facing their fears