The thing about owning snakes is sooner or later, you will be bitten. It may not be a defensive bite or an aggressive bite; in fact, the only time I've been bitten was when I made the mistake of handling my kingsnake too soon after she had eaten. She just calmly started mouthing my finger and immediately let go. It wasn't a mean bite, and I barely felt anything. Outside of feeding responses, she has never offered to bite me or anyone else she's around. She's six years old, and I handle her every other day with no ill effects.
My point is, you can get calm snakes and leave them alone, but if a snake needs vet care, it's a lot easier to examine them if they are used to being handled and having certain things done to them. Some snakes will do well if you leave them alone for weeks, some may be a little nippy. It all depends on the INDIVIDUAL snake.
Don't be ashamed at all of having a fear of being bitten. It's natural to be afraid. I think it would be safe to say that most snake owners were a little nervous about being bitten the first time.
I know I rambled on, but I hope this was helpful. Good luck!
Kings and corns make great first snakes. They are easy keepers and usually have great appetites.
Here's mine.
