I think it might be my male. I brumated her but not him because he took a drastic weight loss and I didn't want to risk brumating him. He picked up a little weight but not up to where he was. My female is a new one that gave me a clutch at the end of last year. He is 5-6 years old and I am not sure on her age. I put them together after I woke her up and nothing happened he did all his normal movements and so did she but I never actually saw them joined. I took her out for a couple of weeks and just put her back in yesterday only to get the same results (head bobbing, arm waving, neck biting) Who is the likely culprit here?

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Thanks Dawn