Not like the lottery at all. More like flipping a coin. 66% hets have a 2 in 3 chance of carrying the trait in question. 50% hets have only a 1 in 2. Do you get variability within small sample sizes? Of course. The whole concept behind statistics and probability is that on average, you will get the stated results. Flip a coin in the air. Do it once. Whatever you get, you have landed outside the average. Flip it 10 times and keep track. Flip it 100 times and keep track. Flip it 1000 times and keep track. The more often you flip it, the closer to half heads and half tails you will get. - The law of averages. If you want to get complicated, we can get into statistics, population sizes (n), double (and triple) hets, etc. The logistics get harder to keep track of, but the principle is still the same. Why do you think casinos exist? They may lose $1M in a progressive super duper multi state jackpot, but they still make a fortune in the long run, because it all averages out, and the system is programmed so the house makes a percentage.
Hope this didn't ramble too bad, and if you take the math far enough, even the lottery applies. It's just the mother of all factorials 
Regards,
Neil