Well Aubrey,....to be honest, many of the nelsoni AND Sinaloan's in today's hobby are a mixed lineage of both to some degree or another. I sometimes see Sinaloan's that look more nelsoni, and nelsoni that have obvious gene-flow from the Sinaloan. Then there are the ones that you can't discern at all because they are a "carbon copy" intergrade of both that is right in the middle.
Excellent "textbook" examples of the two are fairly easy for some to distinguish, especially when shown the differences from someone very experienced with the two subspecies that can point them out, but as the RBR(red body rings), and triads(rings of three) fluctuate in width and shape, they become much harder for people that don't have a VERY "trained" eye to distinguish.
Years ago when the nelsoni was first introduced into the hobby, but still extremely rare, there were already a good number of Sinaloan's available to the public, so when the first albino nelsoni was produced from a very small limited stock, there weren't many true Nelson's available to the people that were in a big rush to produce the albinos, which were very pretty and very expensive at the time($2,000 dollars), so most people used the next best thing that looked VERY similar to produce them,...the Sinaloan.
*Sinaloan's are distinguished from nelsoni by several key traits, the RBR(red body rings) are usually two to two and a half times wider than the triads(rings of three), sometimes even wider on some specimens, animals from the Cosala, Mexico area are well noted for their wider RBR count, as well as their mottled snout of white and red pigment.
The black outer rings of the triads on Sinaloan's also are much narrower at the base, and do not tend to taper out much towards the top of the back when compared to nelsoni, many times being almost straight up and down. The snouts have varying amounts of white/yellow mottling, while some individuals are almost entirely black. Sinaloan's also tend to be a bit larger on average than nelsoni. The RBR on the tail portion just past the cloaca(vent) on Sinaloae tend to be more visible, and lsomewhat less obscured with black pigment as is typical with nelsoni.
The first black ring just behind the head is slightly thicker under the throat as well in sinaloae.
* Nelsoni on the other hand, have much narrower RBR(red body rings) than Sinaloans, and are usually one to two times as wide as the triad(rings of three) grouping, with the outer black rings being wider at the base and tapering outward on top of the dorsum(back) much more abruptly in an "arch-like" shape.
The snouts on nelsoni are usually a little more mottled with white flecking than on Sinaloans, with some outstanding examples being almost solid white.
The first black ring behind the head on nelsoni many times is incomplete under the throat, or is very thinly connected.
The tail portion of nelsoni are usually much more obscured with black pigment than are Sinaloans, and many times simply consist of black and white rings.
In any case, these are the key meristical differences between the two. Also, here are two outstanding examples of each that clearly show a discernable difference between the two. ....Hope this helps!
this is an outstanding male nelsoni I used to have well before the albino was ever produced.

Here is a nice example of Sinaloan produced from stock from the Cosala Area of Mexico. This outstanding animal is owned by Dave Niles, and posts here often.

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