>>I'm planning on housing a pair. Do you always feed outside the
>>cage, or do you seperate them inside the cage with a devider at
>>feeding?
Usually, I lure the male out of the cage with a food item, and then feed the female in the cage. Once she has eaten her fill, I return the male to the cage (either by luring it with another food item or just picking him up and putting him back - the latter option usually elicits lots of hissing and scrabbling).
Just one word of warning - always wear fully covered shoes (no sandals) when doing this. Hungry monitors on the floor do not mix well with bare feet. Other than that, I've never had any problems when following this procedure with adults.
Good luck,
Luke