May I ask, what is a success story? I am confused as to what that would be. As I am sure there have been many.
In fact a while back a nice lady from SoCal posted of her group. She had one individual that she took to the lake, the mall, all over. It lived in wonderful outdood enclosures as well as had full use of her house. In fact she bred them once and hatch a small number including a set of twins. Sadly after a few years, they failed from a mysterious disease or some such thing.
Also Jody, has a beautiful group of niles and has produced a few offspring.
Niles are no different then other large monitors, some can be abused and exhibit poor behavior or even do so naturally. Others may not be nasty at all. It mostly comes down to the keeper.
In my opinion, monitors are more like birds in behavior, and like birds, they respond to our sexes. I keep lots and lots of monitors, I get along with the females without problem. But the males treat me very differently. Much like you will see with parrots and such.
The males are not bad, they treat me like a male. This I like and respect. I would have it no other way.
So back to your monitor, why some have jumped on you is. You are saying all the normal beginer things and ones who normally say these things will shortly fail. They will allow the monitor to die or give it away and it will then die. Nothing personal, those who have been around for a while see this very commonly.
For instance, you make a point of your nile being captive hatched. The chances of this are very very low. Kinda like getting hit by a lightening bolt or winning the lottery. As 99.999% of the baby niles(100% at this time of year) are wild caught, that are falsely labelled CH or Farm raised. In this case, CH means, they have stolen the eggs out of nature(dug them up) and farm raised means, they have captured a gravid female and have put in a pen with others until she drops her eggs. In both cases, the labels are a lie, they are monitors stolen from nature.
I could go on, but there is no point. Who the heck cares if it is or not? 90% or more of all the monitors being kept are indeed wild caught or wild harvested. Its a very small minority that are captive hatched.
That you make a point of it being captive hatched is far more important. Why?
The next problem is age, many beginers make a point of age. Even if your correct about age, your now expressing poor care. As a 12 month old healthy nile could very easily be in the 2 to 4 foot range. Not 12 inches.
All monitor species, including the very small types commonly grow 2 to 5 inches a month, particularly in the first year. So while your proud of your monitor, the results you show are not something to be proud of, YET.
A point i hope to make is, do not worry about other success stories, only worry about your individual monitor. Find out what monitors are suppose to do, then attempt to allow yours to do that.
Heres why you are only one of many. Many thousands of niles are imported on a yearly basis. All but a very very few will be dead by the next season. Then it starts all over again. And again, and again, and again. Think about that, many of us have been on these forums for a bunch of years, we have sadly experienced tens of thousands of imported niles and their keepers and their monitors deaths(including from the story above).
If you do end up taking decent care(you really do not need to take great care) you will indeed end up being a very exceptional nile keeper. But that will occur in time, not in two months.
About love, how do you love something so much in two months. Is the word love something you tell yourself in order to keep interested in the animal? I ask this only because I do not understand it. I see it on here all the time. You know the keeper saying how much they love this or that. But I fail to understand how. I think maybe you should start with interested, then tolerate, then work up to like, then love, not human type love, but animal type love. Remember, these forums are to discuss and try to understand. I just don't understand your approach. If I did, I may have a different opinion. Also it seems that those who love their animals so much end up getting rid of them, as that much love is very taxing. Cheers