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OT: My child's surgery....

OKReptileRescue Sep 18, 2008 11:51 AM

Many of you know me, some of you don't --- My daughter, Lexie (born dec. 13, 2006) will be having surgery Monday (22nd) to remove a tumor in her head.
The tumor goes from about 2cm in her brain cavity, down behind her eye and is wrapped up in her orbit, goes down and is pushing her teeth out in odd order and different directions (she had 2 year old molars at 8 months old), it also goes down around her ear canal/ear drum. The dr.s cannot determine if she is going to be permanently deaf in that ear, of if removing the tumor will take the pressure off.

The surgery starts at 7:30 monday morning, our check in time is 6am.
They are going to cut her ear to ear over the top of her head, and from the inside corner of her eye, down the side of her nose to her lip.

They are removing her eye socket, upper and lower jaws, and the joint connecting the 2.
They are going to do a bone graft from the base of her skull to re build the facial bones.

The surgery is expected to last 8 hours, and we will be unable to see her for about 10 hours (with recovery time, etc).

My daugher also has a heart defect, hypoplastic left heart syndrome (hlhs)-- she has no left ventricle in her heart. We have had 2 open heart surgeries in the last year and a half to begin reconstructing her heart, and will have one more heart surgery in about a year. So we are not new to the surgery waiting room but it is still hard... this is our longest and biggest surgery yet.

If you have any wishes, energy, prayers or hugs for my daughter (or me)it is greatly appriciated!

~Beth
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Replies (56)

jmartin104 Sep 18, 2008 12:03 PM

Suddenly, my problems don't seem so bad. Hopefully, you will all make it through successfully. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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Jay A. Martin
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Guy Scavone II Sep 18, 2008 12:19 PM

Beth, your family and daughter are in our prayer! All the best.

Lizards of Oz Sep 18, 2008 12:26 PM

My prayers go out to you and your little girl. I will be thinking about her on Monday. Take care.
Matt Ozsvath

pfan151 Sep 18, 2008 12:26 PM

Wow, that is horrible to here. Is the tumor benign. Good luck, kids are tough.
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John Vandegrift

theanimalman Sep 18, 2008 12:32 PM

I'm sorry to hear about all of developemental and growth problems she is having. There is absolute hope in situations like yours though.

I have a cousin who went through very similar situations, growths and surgeries all his life. He pulled through all the surgeries and trials that have been in his life.

I believe with the current day surgical and medical procedures, your daughter will be able to pull through and have a good life.

Be optimistic.
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herpsltd Sep 18, 2008 12:39 PM

Having been blessed with 4 of my own children and 1 adopted my heart and prayers go out to you. I wish you and yours all the best.......TC

TamiLynne Sep 18, 2008 12:50 PM

Good luck, love.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

grnpanda Sep 18, 2008 12:51 PM

Having no children, I could not possibly begin to understand the stress and trials that you have been through already with your daughter of such few years. I hope all goes well and keep your chin up. You have a brave young girl that needs your optimism and support to keep her going. You are a brave soul as well and I wish for you nothing but the best possible outcome for your daughters surgery.

JenH Sep 18, 2008 12:55 PM

We will be praying for you and Lexie. God has a plan for us all.

Keep your chin up, I know it's hard.

Jennifer

luvmyhydra Sep 18, 2008 12:58 PM

My little girl will be 17 months in 2 days and I could not even begin to imagine what you are going through. You will be in my thoughts. Just keep positive thoughts, she's obviously a little trooper. She's a strong girl..
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melindaste Sep 18, 2008 02:14 PM

My best wishes to you and your daughter and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter.

louie1 Sep 18, 2008 02:37 PM

I am sorry to hear what you and your daughter are going through. Sounds like she is a fighter and will not let this beat her. Having a son who has had tumors in past I firmly believe everything happens for a reason. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter.
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Louie Chavez

fgs Sep 18, 2008 02:55 PM

Beth:

Our hearts go out to you and your family at this time.

May God Grant You Peace.

Brian
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LadyOhh Sep 18, 2008 03:10 PM

Hopes and prayers to you and your family, Beth.
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muddoc Sep 18, 2008 03:18 PM

When I read that, I realized how strong your daughter and your family must be. That is alot for such a young person to have to go through. I wish you the best, and know that your daughter will be fine. It sounds like she is already a fighter and very resilient. Please let us know how she is once the recovery begins. I know that everyoine will be praying for you and yours.

Best of luck,
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Tim and Monica Bailey
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aru Sep 18, 2008 03:53 PM

i think the same!
one thought to you also from italy and from all Italians herpers.

Paolo dassetto

LibertyReptiles Sep 18, 2008 04:33 PM

Hey Beth, I was wondering why I hadn't heard from you lately...I hope everything goes well...e-mail me afterward and let me know how it goes...I have a son recovering from a motorcycle accident, so I feel your pain. Always remember...there's a good story for every bad one. Dale
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brookside Sep 18, 2008 04:55 PM

Beth,

Our prayers, hugs and best wishes are with you and Lexie. As difficult as it may be, try to keep all of your thoughts and energy positive. It's so important for you to think and believe that Lexie will have a successful surgery...She will have a quick recovery...She will be free of tumors....She will be free of heart defects.

There is a reason you were blessed with Lexie. I believe God put that beautiful child in your care because you are a strong and wonderful Mother.

God Bless,
Scott Priester

pinstripes Sep 18, 2008 04:57 PM

God Bless her!

Pinstripes

cmherps Sep 18, 2008 05:03 PM

Beth
You and Lexie are in my prayers, and I will be leaving in about an hour to go to a mens bible study, we meet every thur. I will bring this up and we will all be praying for you.
CM

stylindawg2006 Sep 18, 2008 05:36 PM

Your daughter and whole family are in my thoughts and a BIG hug goes out to all of you.

dgarner Sep 18, 2008 05:58 PM

Every prayer I have will go out for your daughter until then. I hope everything goes perfectly and she recovers quickly.

toshamc Sep 18, 2008 06:01 PM

Beth - you, your family and that brave little girl of yours will be in our thoughts and prayers. Best wishes for a successful surgery and a speedy recovery.
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Tosha
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DragonDavy Sep 18, 2008 06:12 PM

My heart goes out to you and your family!
I have a 2.5 year old daughter I love with all my heart and I know you are the same.

God bless her and god will make sure everything will be ok.

I will send some love and prayers your way!
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Dean38 Sep 18, 2008 06:46 PM

May the Lord bless you and keep you and cause his face to shine upon you.
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Tracy Barker Sep 18, 2008 07:13 PM

Dear Beth,

We will be thinking of you and Lexie and giving all our energy toward a good result on her surgery. Her birthday is just 4 days earlier than mine-and I know we December girls are very tough!

Best thoughts from our family to yours,

Tracy, Dave, Tom, Guy Barker

darkcontinent Sep 18, 2008 07:31 PM

wayne and i both send our thoughts and will keep you and your family in our prayers while you go thru this tough time. puts into focus all the things we "think" are important in life. good luck and god bless
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Wayne and Ryan
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morphevolutions Sep 18, 2008 08:17 PM

I am without words. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I cannot imagine how awesome and strong your child is, as well as you and your family. That little girl is going to grow up to be an amazing person - not that she isn't already.

You tell her that when she's old enough to begin selling snakes for mom and dad, I am going to be her first customer, and it will be an honor to do so!

I can only wish that I would/could be that strong.
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Jeff Favelle Sep 18, 2008 08:23 PM

Best wishes for you and your daughter!! My thoughts are with you guys.

bboa Sep 18, 2008 08:50 PM

Your family is in our prayers!

laurarfl Sep 18, 2008 09:08 PM

My prayers are with you, your baby, and your family. Please let us know that she is safe and on the road to recovery!

Laura

WALL2WALLREPTILE Sep 18, 2008 09:41 PM

Beth,
Your family is in our thoughts.
We wish you all the best.

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CaseyWagner Sep 18, 2008 10:07 PM

I'm really sorry for the tough times that you and your daughter are experiencing. From my family to yours, we pray everything goes well.
Casey

ThaGirls Sep 18, 2008 10:15 PM

Dear Beth,
Big hug from Arkansas.There can be no greater pain than to see your child suffer.May God give you the courage, strength and Faith to place her in His hands and the Comforter be with you throughout these hrs of waiting. May the angels surround your family and the Lord guide the hands of the surgeons.
Prayers from the heart,
Toni

ginebig Sep 18, 2008 10:48 PM

If you have any wishes, energy, prayers or hugs for my daughter (or me)it is greatly appriciated!

Beth, I got em all for all of you. Prayers and good thoughts comin' your way till they are no longer needed.

Quig

revjim_2 Sep 18, 2008 10:48 PM

We will include your family in our prayers of joy and concern on Sunday, and I will keep you in mine the whole week through. As a father, I can only imagine what you are going through. Peace be with you. Rev. Jim

twreptiles Sep 18, 2008 11:17 PM

Beth,

Best of luck to your daughter. Your family will be in all of our prayors.

Travis Whisler

PeterRuegner Sep 18, 2008 11:22 PM

you and your family wii be in our prayers.

joshhutto Sep 18, 2008 11:25 PM

Our best wishes and prayers go out to you, your daughter and the rest of your family. I could only imagine what you are all going through at this time.
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Christopher0us Sep 18, 2008 11:57 PM

Beth-

All and only the very very best for your child and your family. You have all the love I can muster. I sincerely hope that all goes well, and that through this you can find boundless compassion, hope, and yes, love.

"The problem with the world is that we draw our family circle too small."
-Mother Teresa
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Maki Sep 19, 2008 12:42 AM

I don't know what to say, but if the good thoughts of many well-wishers has any effect, your child will sail through the surgery and recovery.

alicecobb Sep 19, 2008 04:58 AM

Beth, I'm wishing that each day brings you renewed strength, brighter times and a healthier Lexie.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you today, Monday and beyond.
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Alice Cobb
Florida Reptile Room

RinL Sep 19, 2008 06:17 AM

prayers,hugs,and best wishes.Rin

bsr inc Sep 19, 2008 08:30 AM

Prayers-

morphed Sep 19, 2008 11:30 AM

We are wishing you all the best from Rhode Island. We will have your family in our families hearts and prayers. Please let us know how everything goes once you are all recovered
Kim and Matt Lee
N.A.R.C

royalmorphz Sep 19, 2008 01:34 PM

I dont know you but you dont have to know someone to give prayers and well wishes so from my family to yours we will pray and continue to as long as is needed

Tim & Liza Johnson

KMS Sep 19, 2008 03:45 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Kevin Stoltz

herphobbyist Sep 19, 2008 03:58 PM

Beth,
Your family will be in our prayers.. Ron
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samantha227 Sep 19, 2008 05:13 PM

From our family to yours our thoughts and prayers are with you.Shane & Kim KSC Exotics

oc-balls Sep 19, 2008 06:01 PM

Beth

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your faminy!

Best wishes for a successful surgery and a speedy recovery.
Ken
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MartinoReptiles Sep 19, 2008 06:22 PM

All my love and best wishes to you and your family during this time. If there is anything this snake breeder from VA/NY can do for you, please do not hesitate to ask.

Regards,
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HTDesigns Sep 19, 2008 07:35 PM

Our hearts and prayers for you and your family!
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stickytongues Sep 19, 2008 09:42 PM

Beth,

Your family will be in our prayers. I pray all goes well before and after the surgery. Take care.

ballisticmorphs Sep 20, 2008 04:22 PM

Our hearts and prayers go out to you all!!! Just know that children are very resiliant and God will be there to watch over! Keep the faith.
Sincerely,
Rich & Debbie

adogunnaike Sep 20, 2008 04:47 PM

My girlfriend and I will pray for your little girl! I hope everything gets better for the both of you.

Alan

ThaGirls Sep 22, 2008 11:44 PM

I hope everything went well today.
t

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